- 04/02/2013
- Posted by: essay
- Category: Free essays
Once people are in their 40’s, or 50’s, or 60’s, they ought to think that they finally have enough experience and freedom to begin to grow the way they want and the way it is comfortable for them, and not begin to decline. There are people who are 82 and older, but who still look forward to tomorrow, have dream and expectations. That is really worth living. And unfortunately, there are people who are 15 and younger, who have already given up and they don not know what they live for. Of course, in is a matter of perspective and own mind, and all we have to do is change our perspective and vision, it does not matter in what age we are now. But we make the things hard for ourselves and we try to belong to a specific age group, but we forget that we all are unique and different, and we choose things, until the things start to choose us.
Nowadays, the middle age adults have a very difficult time, especially along with the technological progress, that makes almost everyone feel not knowing a lot and enough. That is why the current situation and problems of the middle age adults is difficult and it can even be said pessimistic, because of all the realities. But this problem has ways out, that should be used for sure by the middle age adults, to provide better future and present for themselves and their families. People should communicate more, and not online, but they have to meet, share their ideas, problems, talk about t hobbies and just enjoy the company. This way it will be much more easier to get what a modern middle age adult wants, to get support from friends and family and not to keep anything in himself. It is always useful to have someone to talk to, or to unite in groups of your age and to talk and generate some ideas. There are plenty of clubs where different problems are discussed, a lot of psychologists who are always ready to help if a person himself is interested in getting out of middle age crisis. Anyway it is always useful to prevent the crisis and enjoy the life, full of friends, relatives, family and people you can communicate with. A person should analyze his behavior and should not be a very strict critic of himself. There should be found positive moments in life, because there are a lot of them, but not many of us can see them. Joy will help survive in every stage of life, middle age or teen age. It depends on a person and his perception of life and people who surround him. A person should not limit the things he enjoys to do, we have to enjoy our life and our family. These things are the most important. Anyway, different situations occur in people’s lives, even depression at the middle age, but anyway people are social by their nature and adults should find some time to communicate, to share and to relax, then the situation will change and all the necessary solutions should be found anyway. Nowadays internet does not make people closer to each other if they live in the same city, because the real communication and talk can’t be substituted, it is unique and primary. Adults should remember it always.
References
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2. “Life Expectancy Profiles”, BBC, 6 June 2005.
3. “Miscarriage significantly associated with increasing paternal age”. Columbia University’s Mailman School of Public Health, 2006.
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