- 06/04/2013
- Posted by: essay
- Category: Free essays
It is good that the National Crime Prevention Council (NCPC) with the help from various other websites was able to create a specific place in the internet where all people, in spite of their age and profession, could find all important for them pieces of advice in an easy and fast way. Thus, we are going to explore some components of this website dwelling on conflict resolution, hate crime and bullying.
Thinking about the three best pieces of advice picked up at the NCPC site it is necessary to note that it was rather hard to choose them, because all pieces of advice are simple, but seem to be effective in appropriate conditions. In the category of bullying the best advice of my choice is connected with crime prevention strategies, because this strategy advices to involve youth in different kinds of activities, taking young people away from streets and giving them positive role models by showing, and even offering them normal, healthy, positive, and more socially adapted alternative through music. Nowadays the youth is the most risk group, and it allows to suppose that parents, teachers and government could decrease bullying and prevent hate and other crime activity through the use of positive images of popular musical idols.
In a case of handling conflict NCPC recommends to control own emotions, because anger is normal feeling that can be and even should be controlled by persons will. It is also necessary to add that anger management tips may help thousands of people to change their ordinary strategies of behavior into the better side.
The truth that it is necessary to walk in the other person’s shoes is unquestionable. It can be easily explained by the fact that only in a case when a person is able to imagine self on the other person’s place may open new perspectives, because it is necessary to think not only about own problems and feelings but, moreover, it is useful to think about other people and understand that they also have feelings and it is more simple to find a decision in any conflict situation, when both sides can identify and understand the true cause of their conflict.
In my own conflicts I tend to control my anger and try to calm myself for several minutes before I will be ready to say something or react on situation in normal way. The best way to avoid conflict is to be as friendly to own opponent as it possible, and not to show own irritation without strong reason. Conflict in its essence is a big difference of interests, while one person is trying to prove that the other person is wrong in some actions or statements. Our life consists of conflicts very often, but some people can avoid conflicts, while others are looking for them. I’m a kind of person who hates conflict, and try always to avoid them or make destructive conflicts more constructive, changing the vector of conflict in more peaceful direction. My secret in a case when I need to avoid a conflict or to minimize its harm is to listen to my interlocutor words, waiting for the moment when the person will be ready to talk without accusations.
Thus, taking into account all the above stated it is necessary to conclude that the NCPC site is a good place not only to find an answer on some questions, but it also gives people an opportunity to reconsider own behavioral strategies and change own life into more happy and positive side.
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