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There is no child who is studying at school and who has never had got at least once in trouble, either as victims or as an accomplice or perpetrator. In such cases, the parents appear with natural desire to intervene and control everything. Meanwhile, they themselves must cope with the difficulties. Obviously, if you will solve all the problems for them, then they do not develop their own skills in resolving difficult situations, such as happened recently at school. It is useless to try too hard, protecting children from ridicule and petty conflicts, but much attention should be paid to the hobbies of children and their interests. Most cases of different problems and incidents are almost inevitable.
Nowadays there are many situations and incidents all over the world, which occur among students. The society is responsible for all this and there should be measures taken. Once, there was an incident at school, when a student broke all the rules and came to school completely drunk. It was terrifying to watch his behavior and his actions and the way he was speaking. He was out of control and he was trying to fight and he was talking obscene words to teachers and classmates. This situation has shown the negative impact on the safety of the students and school teachers. It was a horrible day at school, as everyone was shocked by the student’s behavior. The student’s name is Jake, and everyone says it was the first time he got so drunk. Many people were trying to calm him down, as well as teachers and classmates, as no one has seen him this way before.
As it was later discovered, his friend Bruce who is 21 years old and he is already permitted to purchase alcohol drinks, bought Jake several bottles of beer and vodka, which they drank together. Bruce has had some problems and he decided to forget about them by sharing some drinks with his friend. As a result, they drank too much and later Jake had plenty problems at school and his parents were very ashamed by his behavior at the parents’ meeting. This incident was humiliating for Jake’s parents and they were ashamed of everything terrible that happened. The problem of alcoholism at school is very serious and proper measures should be taken and innovations in schools system applied to control the school activity and to keep all the children safe. The Jake’s insults to teachers and classmates were out of control, and now he doesn’t even remember it was happening, as he was drunk too much. He apologized and asked everyone to think before they do something like that. The lecture of psychologists was successful and teachers and parents hope not to see their children drunk.
Almost one fifth of the students of the same age we told that their friends at least once a week are getting drunk. 22% of students gave this answer. It turns out that almost half of adolescents get drunk regularly on the weekends. That is why there should be provided lectures and trainings to prevent alcoholism at school, and parents should prohibit parties to students, as it deteriorates the situation and children start coming home late and drunk. It all begins with a lack of parents’ attention. Student start searching new things and they think they can forget about their problems and difficulties after getting drunk. Many students have negative impact on their classmates and friends, and parents should carefully supervise the behavior of their children to explain them the real consequences and danger of such way of life.
As a fact, there were taken disciplinary actions to prevent further incidents at school. The actions include lectures to all students about proper behavior at school and at home, parents’ meetings with active discussions about their children and problems arising these days. There were held preventing measures, including the apologies of Jake and his explanation about the incident.
Options that could have been taken – Jake could have been expelled from school or suspended due to the incident that caused many problems and shame to school teachers, parents and students. Strict measures should be taken, as there is a lot of chaos at school that disturbs teachers and students and makes things more complicated. The school rules should be regularly reminded to children and teachers, and the problems of children’s behavior should be discussed regularly at the parents’ meetings.
To prevent incidents at school, parents should meet the teachers; ask them how things are going with their children. If a conflict arose between the teacher and the child, do not take anybody’s side, until it all is not familiar. Persistence is a unique tactics, giving the greatest effect in dealing with problematic situations. A conversation in which there are teacher and student – an effective method to ascertain the true situation and mend relations. If you have serious reasons not to trust the school administration, it is much more effectively to perform together, not alone. By the way, at the next school assembly parents should ask the director about the issues of security guards at school and the current arising problems.
The measures taken by school teachers and parents of Jake brought good results, as nowadays Jake doesn’t drink, he started doing sport and he is fond of communication with friends. Wise explanation nowadays about alcohol and problems connected with it can help to prevent many problems and incidents at school, which can cause harm and be unsafe. Lectures and more frequent parents’ meetings helped very much, as now students and their parents start to realize what was missing between parents and children. Children, parents and teachers can devote 1 hour per month to discuss current problems, as it will be much easier to study together and to find solutions to problems. Communication is a very powerful tool, especially nowadays, when people spend plenty of their time online and forget about the communication and life in the reality.
As a conclusion, it can be stated that nowadays many students are out of control by many reasons, and their parents are partly responsible for that. There should be devoted more attention to students at home and at school, to be able to create individual approach and relation to each person. The current situation of a student who got drunk should be an example of shame and behavior out of control, as it is important to remember where you are and in what condition.